Cropped out like a Facebook Profile Picture

Just got off of Facebook. Looking at a "friends" page and the thought came to mind....

CROPPED OUT LIKE A FACEBOOK PROFILE PIC

I like to think im human; but the not so human would say "its just facebook and you people take this way to serious".  I would like to go by this logic for most thing but not all which means that it does matter. I gues by the finish of my spill you will see another point of view that will make you choose your words and post wisely.

Now a profile picture should identify the page that you are visiting; the original picture is normally apart of an album. What if it never made the cut? What if you were cropped out of that original picture?

Now that you are thingking about it I will jump ship and say that a friendship isnt to be taken lightly. Its not a word that should be disrespected or abused. Now Social networks are forms of therapy if you want to admit it or not. Its a place where you can recieve sympathy when you need it or praise for a job well done. You share things that are important to you rather you choose to down play it or not. Often the people that helped or hurt you will get the message one way or another and its a way to get people for or against another. By now you should get the general idea of what i mean so i can get back to the issue at hand.

First thing people do when they break up from a mate is run straight to Facebook and update their status. If it wasnt that important then why is it a priority? At this point you are cropping someone out of your life (for the time being) like a profile pic. Now the actual picture was never the real focus but something to think about. Now my VISION is, that times have changed and the signs we use to pay attention to still exist but there are new ones that should be considered.

The usual signs that i have grown to use are the eye contact, company you keep, style, temperment, make-up usage, family values etc..... But what about Vulgar statuses, half naked pics and even limited profiles. Im sure you could formulate your own reasons to question these things and i dont want to spoil the experience for you but should they not be taken into consideration for things to come?

If you could tell if a person was worth the wait, worth your time, worth meeting the parents, worth being around your kids by taking notice to Facebook would you? I would like to mention that they do it about killers and there sprees and baby mothers plots to have there baby father killed.....

Maybe you should start cropping your thoughts before you post them. It might not be a bad idea to ask yourself how would that profile picture affect your job status or even your parents image of you.  Yes you are an adult but the people around you are affected but most of your actions.

You've lowered the bar so it should be hard to raise it.

  Is it me or have women lowered there standards....

  First thing you're thinking is no I haven't lowered anything but look around...

  Guys do things according to what a woman allows them to get away with. So if I could go with out washing my ass and brushing my hair and teeth everyday and still get a female then its a issue. Is it safe to say you ladies certify trends? Of course you do. Well why is it ok to have a bush, no shape up and a blonde patch to top it off? (yal think that's cite or sexy.... Sillyrabbits) Why is it ok to wear skinny jeans then sag them below your ass and even crotch? Why is it ok to wear Jordan's with a suit?

OFF THE PHYSICAL (PAUSE) FOR A SECOND

  Now we understand times are rough; which is why I won't touch on jobs, status, and lodging but dressing for success is normally apart of the package.

  Now I've seen people with facial fair just insane! But if I had the issue and knew I could still get you, why bother? Us men are human being of comfort. If we could rock Hoopin shorts and white t-shirts to church we would. Sad but its true. I have seen it every where else though and I'm sure my extra eyes out there could give confirmation. ALL OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT!

  Now when your help is necessary you don't want anything to do with the matter but thats another blog for another day.

  I could ramble on forever about the bad trends but its no point. Ladies you have lowered the bar so it shouldn't be that hard to raise it. Us fellas need you ladies to get us back on track. Make it cool to have a clean cut and jeans that fit. Make foamposites and white t-shirts a thing of the past. Don't accept game from dudes wearing Nike boots in the summer time. Say no to coogi! Some of this shit has to stop and it starts with you raising your standards.