Cropped out like a Facebook Profile Picture

Just got off of Facebook. Looking at a "friends" page and the thought came to mind....

CROPPED OUT LIKE A FACEBOOK PROFILE PIC

I like to think im human; but the not so human would say "its just facebook and you people take this way to serious".  I would like to go by this logic for most thing but not all which means that it does matter. I gues by the finish of my spill you will see another point of view that will make you choose your words and post wisely.

Now a profile picture should identify the page that you are visiting; the original picture is normally apart of an album. What if it never made the cut? What if you were cropped out of that original picture?

Now that you are thingking about it I will jump ship and say that a friendship isnt to be taken lightly. Its not a word that should be disrespected or abused. Now Social networks are forms of therapy if you want to admit it or not. Its a place where you can recieve sympathy when you need it or praise for a job well done. You share things that are important to you rather you choose to down play it or not. Often the people that helped or hurt you will get the message one way or another and its a way to get people for or against another. By now you should get the general idea of what i mean so i can get back to the issue at hand.

First thing people do when they break up from a mate is run straight to Facebook and update their status. If it wasnt that important then why is it a priority? At this point you are cropping someone out of your life (for the time being) like a profile pic. Now the actual picture was never the real focus but something to think about. Now my VISION is, that times have changed and the signs we use to pay attention to still exist but there are new ones that should be considered.

The usual signs that i have grown to use are the eye contact, company you keep, style, temperment, make-up usage, family values etc..... But what about Vulgar statuses, half naked pics and even limited profiles. Im sure you could formulate your own reasons to question these things and i dont want to spoil the experience for you but should they not be taken into consideration for things to come?

If you could tell if a person was worth the wait, worth your time, worth meeting the parents, worth being around your kids by taking notice to Facebook would you? I would like to mention that they do it about killers and there sprees and baby mothers plots to have there baby father killed.....

Maybe you should start cropping your thoughts before you post them. It might not be a bad idea to ask yourself how would that profile picture affect your job status or even your parents image of you.  Yes you are an adult but the people around you are affected but most of your actions.

You've lowered the bar so it should be hard to raise it.

  Is it me or have women lowered there standards....

  First thing you're thinking is no I haven't lowered anything but look around...

  Guys do things according to what a woman allows them to get away with. So if I could go with out washing my ass and brushing my hair and teeth everyday and still get a female then its a issue. Is it safe to say you ladies certify trends? Of course you do. Well why is it ok to have a bush, no shape up and a blonde patch to top it off? (yal think that's cite or sexy.... Sillyrabbits) Why is it ok to wear skinny jeans then sag them below your ass and even crotch? Why is it ok to wear Jordan's with a suit?

OFF THE PHYSICAL (PAUSE) FOR A SECOND

  Now we understand times are rough; which is why I won't touch on jobs, status, and lodging but dressing for success is normally apart of the package.

  Now I've seen people with facial fair just insane! But if I had the issue and knew I could still get you, why bother? Us men are human being of comfort. If we could rock Hoopin shorts and white t-shirts to church we would. Sad but its true. I have seen it every where else though and I'm sure my extra eyes out there could give confirmation. ALL OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT!

  Now when your help is necessary you don't want anything to do with the matter but thats another blog for another day.

  I could ramble on forever about the bad trends but its no point. Ladies you have lowered the bar so it shouldn't be that hard to raise it. Us fellas need you ladies to get us back on track. Make it cool to have a clean cut and jeans that fit. Make foamposites and white t-shirts a thing of the past. Don't accept game from dudes wearing Nike boots in the summer time. Say no to coogi! Some of this shit has to stop and it starts with you raising your standards.

Random thoughts of organized chaos...

I'll be your friend. But I have ill intentions. To steal ur heart and hold it forever. I'll be playing by your rules. I may shake things up to get an rise out of you. I plan to make you feel the way I feel. So you know love can be cruel. I'll have my moments. Just bare with me and know its a growing process. It's all new for me. When and if we have sex it will feel like love making and not fucking. I plan to ignore you from time to time just to see if you're still interested because my random acts of excitement can become boring.

Daughter needs justice!

Picture Me Perfect. Yea Right! http://nashellbadu.tumblr.com/post/7008650538/justice-for-henri-pratt-stabbed-27-times-in-md-on

Are yal official yet?

  This seems to be a question I've only heard women ask, but if you don't ask, you are left to question alot of things that you probably shouldn't. It's about signing a unwritten contract that didn't come with the carfax. The start of the ending of what was once fun and stress free.  First let's cover when you shouldn't discuss this....

  *You shouldn't spring this question on someone you don't know on the behalf of a friend while that friend is present. Like really your asking for a smartass reply from a guy like me.
  *You should not ask this to the guy you met at the bar. Why you ask; because neither of you are going to want to find a new bar to hang out just to avoid each other after he never calls you again...
  *You might not want to ask a question like this first thing in the morning because the rest of the day will suck. Lol no really you're both going to wonder about that answer you did or didn't get.

What's the purpose of it if you do everything official? Why do you need the title that comes with being "official"? Learn to enjoy life the way it is and not the way everyone else wants it to be. Don't allow your friends to dictate what happiness should be for you but they should check your mood ring occasionally. I've witnessed relationships forced because of friends; (im guilty of it too) situations where there was clearly an understanding of what things would be....
  
  So when when this question is brought up it should be brought up during a argument.... Sound pretty dumb doesn't it. It actually makes all the sense in the world. Your relationship is built on emotion, understanding, disagreements, respect and that other word..... What better time for all of those to be  expressed truthfully then a argument? The time is exclusive (normally) and at a point that will make or break you, him or her. This is also something.that varies with age and wisdom. Do what comfortable to you. If your leasing relationships until you find the right one do you. Just make sure its genuine and you both have an understanding of.what things are and what's to come.

 

Aydens first boyfriend

While talking with a friend who has two kids of her own her own her purpose is to teach me early. I take life's lessons as they come. This lesson was one that I would have to teach for as long as I'm a father.

So the idea is that the father I am will determine the caliber of man my daughter dates when she is old enough. ( sounds like no man will be.good.enough forher but...) All jokes aside this is something that I think about daily and is amplified everytime I'm in the presence of my daughter.

I've come to notice that most of the stuff I was brought up doing is highly favored by females because it no longer exist on the level it should. I'm not doing anything  extra special but my daughters birth has raised my value for what I already knew was special; a woman.

So with that being said my daughter will look toward toher door being opened, calls to make sure she's safe, not carrying bags, hearing I love you, flowers for no reason, respect, loyalty, reliability, strong support, stability, straight foward but considerate, family oriented, open minded, stylish, well groomed, educated.

AND SO MUCH MORE!

The village will raise this child. So Aydens second boyfriend will have to come correct.

"Don't let her".........Get you fucked up

The power of.the p.u.s.s.y....... This term holds so much truth that its that its kinda sad. My focus isn't exactly what Jay-z was talking about in his song but holds truth. A man's duty is to protect the pussy, I mean the woman........ But life has shown that a man trying to protect a woman that's out of line can result in an ass whooping that could have been avoided. So "dont let her" get you fucked up...

The scenario of the date, boyfriend, husband, best friend getting into an altercation because the date, girlfriend,wife and bff/ homegirl aka (drawls you haven't hit yet) wanted to argue with someone rather right or wrong plays out too often. With out scanning the situation (wich is a skill most woman don't possess; look at their driving) of what on the surface looks like one dude out of line is actually a gang of drunk niggas ready for something to kick off.  This is one of those times where you have to be at your best because its really a lose lose. The guy that your girl is arguing with is never alone because niggas don't act a fool by themselves.  Walking away can result in a attack you can't see which is the worst but too much talking will give your girl a chance to piss everyone off and draw a crowd to the soon to come ass whooping.

To help you avoid this situation you have to educate yourself and the woman you are with. While you are getting to know your girl you need to have this talk. Ask a few question. 
   ~ when was your last fight
   ~ do you have any enemies
   ~ does your husband work for the police
   ~ where do you normally hang out
   ~ are you going to wear that

All these questions should give you a good idea of where you can go, what you should bring, what you should where and what to look for. When you both meet up make sure she knows where you will be going and make sure she's in a good mood. This will prepare her for certain foolishness.  If she has an attitude you need to change the plans.

If you follow all these rules and she still gets you into some shit you need to fight her cause she set you up!

Ladies you have the ability to make or break a date. We can all agree that your man getting his ass kicked for you isnt a good way to end a night. Even if your dude wins the fight you will probably start a life long beef and generate a police record. That man isn't going to knowingly let you get your ass beat. So save yourself (as Kevin Heart said "be apart of your own rescue). Before you POP slick make sure you get confirmation from your dude. Make sure you and him are dressed for the occasion. The guy yelling "hey shawty", ignore him! DONT LOOK BACK!

If you are with a man and you look back; to us that means he's a bitch and shawty want me to get her. (sounds stupid but its a fact)

With all that being said make your next outing a smooth one.

Don't let her get you fucked up!

Video is funny. S/o to the week ass pitbull that watched boy get beat up. Sick'em bitches. Lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olK8H_zBRKM&feature=youtube_gdata_player